11 03 13 - 04:57From the bag of the mail:
Let's say you were not married. Would you fuck a cutie, attractive black girl whom you felt attracted to?
There's two questions here. Let me separate them out:
Would you fuck
No, I'd court, which is a gentle form of dating leading to potential marriage.
Dating is a waste of time, and fucking is for animals.
Dating encourages you to attempt pretend-marriage with someone and then at some point decide to use them as a long-term marriage partner, if it works for a number of years. The problem with this is that it breaks the contractual nature of marriage, and as such is always manipulative. With dating, there is no exchange of obligations; there is merely an existing condition that, while convenient, can be perpetuated. Marriage is entered into a a guilt-based obligation, which engenders long-term resentment.
Fucking seems like it would be great. It's fun, right? It's a half-hour of fun that's overemphasized in our society because media and social pressures force us to invent reasons that we're living the good life. We have to come up with the usual suspects: either we're fucking, or we're high, or we're drunk, or we're watching something, or we're eating something great. It's all instagram fodder. In reality, the most masculine among us don't spend much time fucking. They achieve things.
a cutie, attractive black girl whom you felt attracted to
I have known some ladies like this.
I would not court such a person, however, since in the uniformity of my observation the happy unions come from people who are of similar backgrounds. This ensures the greatest ability to understand one another and match one another in abilities, genetic inclinations and even genetics itself.
You could ask this question as well, "Would you court someone from another culture or social class?"
No, to someone from another culture -- having seen this up close, there are too many issues to resolve which can never be resolved. Fundamental assumptions are too radically different.
No, to someone from another social class, whether that would be richer or poorer, for the same reason.