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My virginity story can be best described as âdisappointing,â and putting virginity on a pedestal usually leads to this disappointment. My first time wasnât anything magical. But my first anal time was.
I didnât lose my anal virginity until years after I first had sex. It was a mix of passion, pleasure, and a dash of pain, all combining to form the statement âCan we have a round 2?â immediately afterwards. It was what I had wanted from my first experience; I canât do the experience justice with words.
Anal sex requires more intimacy than vaginal sex. A girl has to be able to relax and trust her partner, or else the sex is just painful. Because people think that anal sex is messy (itâs not), most partners only attempt it they comfortable with each otherâs bodies. And the guy has to know what heâs doing, and to remember to use lube. Many a friend of mine has described situations where men have tried it on the first hookup, without lube. This will be a trainwreck: Always use lube! Since not everyone keeps it on them, anal sex requires a bit more planning.
I donât always prefer anal sex to vaginal sex â the sensations are different â but at the very least it adds spice to the bedroom. Anal might never be as widely accepted as oral, but it is the one sexual act I have found that is worth the hype. - My anal virginity
Of all the things in life, that you do or buy, why do you need them in the first place? What do they achieve?
Hint: nothing is fun on its own; it's all context. Even drugs and sodomy.