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Asexuality

06 03 12 - 19:31

Is it asexuality, or just waiting around for the elusive person you want to have sex with:


In the opening scenes of the documentary, director Angela Tucker asks people to tell her what asexuality means to them. "I think… moss is asexual?" one woman ponders, while another talks about tadpoles.

Listen to asexual people talk about everyday life and you realise they face social minefields that don't affect people of other sexualities. "Living in a world that holds the romantic and the sexual as the highest ideals possible is difficult," says Bryony, a 20-year-old biology student from Manchester. "The most pervasive effect on my life at the moment, as a student, is how many conversations revolve around sex and the sexual attractiveness of certain people that I just don't really want to join in with." - The Guardian


Sex may be most fulfilling when we're with someone who, if a pregnancy happened, we'd want to be more closely bonded to. We could see being a family with this person.

That's rare.

Most of the time, it's someone mediocre whose main attribute is a willingness to say YES. In our society, virginity is treated like a burden and constant propaganda to be having sex or in a relationship turns people into whores who accept second-, third-, fourth- and fifteenth-best in order to not be seen as losers, loners, or whatever meme-insult the media hive mind has generated this week.

Asexuality, also rising in Japan, is more a reaction to the consequences of sexual liberation instead of sexual liberation itself. Great: we can have sex with anything at any time. All that does is reveal how few of those we actually want to have sex with.

In turn that reveals that sex perhaps serves a lower function, not a higher one. We want to find the right person and have sex with them, not have sex with people and hope one turns out to be OK.


In a recent government survey, 61 percent of unmarried men aged 18 – 34 said they did not have a girlfriend. Half of unmarried women surveyed were single with most saying they were content with their status.

“Between work and home, there are few opportunities to meet people anymore,” said 40-year-old Megumi Shiga, who attended the matchmaking event.

The romantic malaise isn’t limited to adults. A separate study found more than a third of teenage boys aged 16-19 showed no interest in sex. - ABC


When everything is equal, nothing is exceptional.

And then boredom and futility set in.

Welcome to entropy -- I mean progress.

23 comments

Franny
A lot of conjecture here, but not a evident amount of first-hand experience.

As you relate to more women, you discover more about the type of woman you're compatible with, and yes, that includes sexual compatibility.

Sex is somehow a commodity that loses its specialness with an exceptional person if you've had a lot of it before? BRRRRRRR. WRONG. Franny - 06-03-’12 23:01
Buttercup Dew
As a gay guy who's been with a variety of strangers I can only confirm the accuracy of this post. Buttercup Dew - 07-03-’12 09:45
Good one fuckwit
"Sex is somehow a commodity that loses its specialness with an exceptional person if you’ve had a lot of it before? BRRRRRRR. WRONG."

exactly! it's special for you EVERY time. Like the everyday moron, you'll always be bitter and full of excuses, but nothing will make up for losing it to some drunk shithead at 15.. Good one fuckwit - 07-03-’12 14:52
Franny
Did I say it was special for me every time? Or maybe you're just putting words in my mouth to make an effective strawman? Shit dude, you really took me down a peg.

The idea that the first time should be the best or somehow 'special' makes no sense. But y'know, if accusing people who disagree with you of being bitter works for ya, than that's cool too brogurt. Franny - 07-03-’12 16:54
Good one fuckwit
Cheers dude! Good one fuckwit - 07-03-’12 16:56
Brett Stevens fan
Brett Steven, you're not asexual; you're just a faggot. Brett Stevens fan (Email ) - 07-03-’12 17:35
playa
what a bunch of pussy betas. fuck love im never marrying, modern women are too neurotic. id rather just be friends....reverse friendzone lol playa - 08-03-’12 14:52
brett stevens should die
rule #1 never listen to what these spotty awkward virgin losers have say about picking up girls.

rule #2: don't listen to the other random shit they talk about because they can't fit in with the world so rant about how the world would be so much better if their nerdy wimpy spotty virgin awkward autistic fuckwits were in charge brett stevens should die (Email ) - 08-03-’12 15:58
playerhater
Look. It's pretty simple, you either find the right partner, marry and be dedicated or you go from person to person like most average dumbfucks that in end achieve nothing. What have you got to loose? playerhater - 08-03-’12 16:11
@playerhater
Nope, there's a third option. Do number 2 for a while, then do number 1.

Yes, I know, ANUS says that if you do that, you'll never remember your eventual spouse's name, they'll seem boring in bed, etc. Not true. @playerhater - 08-03-’12 16:23
Don't hate the player hate the game
This is gonna be tl;dr material but fuck it I'm bored as hell

>What have you got to loose?

Given how ugly women are more likely to get qualtity guys than vice versa,
that divorce settlings usually favor women and how masculinized women are
today a fair bit.

In worse case your wife turns into land whale, you lose all your friends, best years of your life and 50% of income and worldly gains, and a lot of contact with your children who may become programmed to hate you. Or your wife stays with you while fucking behind your back, never giving it up to you.

>go from person to person like most average dumbfucks that in end achieve nothing

Yea and marrying a does? Most marriages I know of result in a live in
the 'burbs, amassing a life of debt, living only for children and wife
and engaging in flights of fantasy where you would get to be a player. Married
men live through porn.

I'd rather do whatever I want, when I want. Live for yourself like all
great men like Nietzsche, Tesla, and Newton.

>rule #1 never listen to what these spotty awkward virgin losers have say about picking up girls.

Yea, I bet guys like Roosh who are surrounded by beautiful women are virgins.
You are an awkward virgin, who is too afraid of self-improvement to do
shit. Roissy has an excellent article on such game deniers. BTW, game
isn't walking up to a girl and saying: 'if I was a bear, would you be
my honey?'. Read books and put them into practice, you'll have a better
life. It's hard, it's nerve-wracking, etc. but in the end you'll be
the guy you always wanted to be instead of a pussy whose friendzoned.

tl;dr marriage is shittier than a life of sex, game actually works stop being too pussy to try it or work on yourself Don't hate the player hate the game - 08-03-’12 16:53
playerhater
"In worse case your wife turns into land whale, you lose all your friends, best years of your life and 50% of income and worldly gains, and a lot of contact with your children who may become programmed to hate you. Or your wife stays with you while fucking behind your back, never giving it up to you."

She wouldn't cheat on you if she were the right girl. Also, with a bit of forethought you wouldn't pick such a toad anyway. There are few decent people left in the western world but they are worth seeking out.

"Yea and marrying a does? Most marriages I know of result in a live in
the ‘burbs, amassing a life of debt, living only for children and wife
and engaging in flights of fantasy where you would get to be a player. Married
men live through porn."

Most people are fucked, period. At least if you find the right person worthy of sharing life with you can escape some of the insanity and dysfunctional of modern life rather than submitting to it and being a slut like everyone else. playerhater - 08-03-’12 18:06
lol @ you
lol, you only have sex with the "special person"? How many times do you masturbate? Sex is just assisted masturbation - loads better and much more fun. Nothing more, nothing less. The fact that you can't find someone to engage in it with brands you as the asocial loser you are. lol @ you - 09-03-’12 13:27
deshawn
^ yea fo sho nigga dey whitys be faggets who jurk dey dik all day wit no puss. while i got dem white bitches all over me

enjoy extinction whiteboy keep wantin to murry some ho whose on my dik deshawn - 09-03-’12 14:03
asparagus
"Asexuality"

Ha ha, oh wow. Can the next post be about Ass burgers, please? asparagus - 09-03-’12 14:25
the true meaning of this post, good luck getting your dick wet, faggot
Prozak is actually a virgin. Only unlike the one in the movie The 40 Year Old Virgin, he's fat, repulsive, and obnoxious. the true meaning of this post, good luck getting your dick wet, faggot - 09-03-’12 20:37
Steel
@the true meaning of this post, good luck getting your dick wet, faggot

hey there fuckwit, enjoy the aids Steel - 10-03-’12 06:24
wtf
you guys seriously criticising guys who get laid? if so you guys are truly the biggest faggot, neckbeard virgins ever. heres some advice, disconnect the internet and go out and make some friends. and then get your dick wet. wtf - 10-03-’12 08:34
Kemal S.
A couple of comments are.. tinged with a critical and snarky spirit, beyond 'fag' accusations there are some thoughtful points raised in this.

Here's one to ponder, is the hypersexuality encouraged in our modern culture even sexuality to begin with, or is it possible that in itself it's actually a form of asexuality? Sexuality doesn't just mean body parts rubbing and penetration. There is a sci-fi dystopia from the 70's staring Sean Connery, Zardax or something along those lines. It involves a class of eugenically bred hyper-aristocrats who have achieved near immortality and after centuries of pleasure, license and debauchery, were asexual and inflicted with a severe boredom, a pathological boredom with cruel consequences.

I think this asexual meme should be examined and not just dismissed, something is going on here, on a deeper level than many are comfortable with examining. Kemal S. - 11-03-’12 09:18
Not that this is a place for knowledge?
"Here’s one to ponder, is the hypersexuality encouraged in our modern culture even sexuality to begin with, or is it possible that in itself it’s actually a form of asexuality? Sexuality doesn’t just mean body parts rubbing and penetration."

So that's how you wanna play it? Instead of defining your terms clearly and saying exactly what you have in mind, you want to redefine and obscure terms to the point so as to make it impossible to conclude anything?

Well, you can go with that. Let me offer an alternative. Hypersexuality is hypersexuality, that is, a lot of sexuality. Sexuality is the nature and amount of the sexual activity that someone engages in, and the emotions that surround it. And sexual activity is what it sounds like: yes it is body parts rubbing and penetration, though it also covers things like foreplay and oral sex.

Boring, I know, but knowledge has never progressed without some tedium. Not that this is a place for knowledge? - 11-03-’12 10:50
playerhater
Listen up fucktards it's really not that complicated. You either are or you are not a slut. You either keep with one person and be dedicated and actually build something worthwhile out of your life or continue 'getting your dick wet' with all the other communal sluts currently circulation. There really isn't much more to it than that. playerhater - 11-03-’12 19:00
etype
wtf? the reason why people are not fucking a butt load of girls is because society is being engraved with negativity and nihilism.
That's the reason in toto.
We were designed to fuck crate loads of pussy...and the main reason people are not fufilling our design goals is because negativity and lack of self worth is being drilled into our heads every day. Learn to deal with that and pussy falls from the sky.And no one who's secure in themselves is going to pass up on moist hot pussy etype (Email ) - 11-03-’12 19:25
@playerhater
Didn't we already cover this? There is a third option. Read above. @playerhater - 12-03-’12 00:20


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